Law Enforcement Wives: We ARE Warriors
(Photo of a proud Minnesota law enforcement wife by Melissa Soto Photography.) Someone maybe needs to hear this tonight.
Being in a relationship with an LEO is very often not what it's cracked up to be. We are dealt some crazy situations that most the rest of the world doesn't have to deal with. We have to share our officer with people we don't want to share them with. Often times we get the short end of the stick because it just comes with the lifestyle.
It can suck. It can be lonely. It can be really *really* hard. Seriously. And normally I'm pretty cool with everything. But tonight as I was loading up the outdoor wood stove I was in a bad mood (because, LIFE stuff) thinking my hands are effin' freezing and I wish just once I didn't have to be the one to do this or take care of that or drag the kids all over or deal with everything... This thought, it hit me. I've been at this about 20 years already.
Gals? You know what? We are warriors. FREAKING WARRIORS.
We can handle shit. We get things done. We deal with situations ALONE that other people wouldn't dream of even touching. We fight through it. We do all the things and then some. And sometimes I have to remind myself that this isn't "poor me" and "why do I have to", it's LOOK AT ME ROCK THIS.
Sometimes we have to go at it like this: Come at me, law enforcement wife/girlfriend life. I got this. I'm a warrior. I'm a fighter. I'm courageous, deep, and fierce. And when I feel like I just. can't. do. it...I've got a group of over 2,000 women who are in the SAME. EXACT. BOAT.
2,000 and some WARRIORS. Gals, we got this.
Editor's note: We use the term wife to also include girlfriends, fiancees, domestic partners and same sex spouses as there currently isn't a term that is inclusive of all these committed relationships with law enforcement officers. Backing the Blue Line (BtBL) strives to include ALL law enforcement (LE) families regardless of marriage, religion, gender, race, political affiliation or sexual orientation and does not discriminate across those lines when it comes to who we support and our Standard Operating Procedures (SOP). BtBL has made a commitment to diversity in its membership and all females in a relationship with a MN law enforcement officer are encouraged to apply. About the Writer: This particularly witty, wise and fierce MN Law Enforcement Wife been with her Law Enforcement Officer for almost 20 years. Her LEO serves in central MN. She is an active member of Backing the Blue Line and has a knack for saying (and writing) just the right thing at the right time to rally, inspire and lift up her blue sisters. Join Backing the Blue Line: We invite all MN police wives/significant others/domestic partners to join our private Facebook Group where we have united a community of 2,300+ police wives and significant others to provide a community of support through friendships, networking, and discussion. It is also for raising awareness of the need to support our unique lives and share the bond that comes with being a law enforcement family. Please note that it is a closed/private group due to safety and security concerns. As such, all Facebook private group members must be approved. Visit Backing the Blue Line on Facebook for information on joining. We also invite all MN police wives/significant others/domestic partners to become full members of Backing the Blue Line to take advantage of all membership benefits and have additional opportunities to give and receive support. About Backing the Blue Line services: BtBL provides support to MN Law Enforcement Officers and their families by maintaining a list of professional and confidential resources available for those that need it. The list includes marriage and family counselors who have experience specific to law enforcement dynamics. Paid members of Backing the Blue Line also have access to special discounts for some providers. You can access the Members Only area of this website by using the password provided in your membership confirmation email. About Membership in Backing the Blue Line: We invite MN police wives/significant others to become members of Backing the Blue Line to take advantage of all available membership benefits and have additional opportunities to give and receive support. We also invite MN police wives/significant other to join our private Facebook page, which is an community of support offering friendships, networking, and discussion. It is also for raising awareness of the need to support our unique lives and share the bond that comes with being a law enforcement family. Find out more About Us!